tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post9076004376009058710..comments2023-10-23T15:18:13.558-05:00Comments on Carpe Diem: ProcessingAllyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01816929643644946388noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-11213089371310305372008-06-18T15:04:00.000-05:002008-06-18T15:04:00.000-05:00That's an interesting statement, "emotional learni...That's an interesting statement, "emotional learning is the hardest to unlearn".Brad Ruggleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00999362928007579834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-66954196332782893522008-06-10T14:41:00.000-05:002008-06-10T14:41:00.000-05:00I think it's very big of you to start looking at h...I think it's very big of you to start looking at how old wounds might blur your vision in new relationships...I have had the same stuff happen and it's always a relief to know that not everyone reacts the same way that you "emotionally learned"...thanks for sharing that...Kimberlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07712571084981694176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-87891518139913950672008-06-09T08:22:00.000-05:002008-06-09T08:22:00.000-05:00Amazing how quickly a year goes by! Think you will...Amazing how quickly a year goes by! Think you will come back to the conga? ;-)icadlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05370086666076297799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-65169386684012206242008-06-06T16:07:00.000-05:002008-06-06T16:07:00.000-05:00It's interesting to see how your hard and producti...It's interesting to see how your hard and productive conversations have led you both to a deeper understanding of one another. HOpe you continue to enjoy your blossoming relationship - no matter how it comes about!Jennifer Owenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04607456428606933279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-19337125539456672702008-06-05T09:47:00.000-05:002008-06-05T09:47:00.000-05:00Glad that everything was able to be talked about. ...Glad that everything was able to be talked about. Sometimes, a little time and a chat make things so much clearer.. other times... not so much.<BR/><BR/>If only it were easy.Scottyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09468559689572078636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-17894208915954507152008-06-05T08:53:00.000-05:002008-06-05T08:53:00.000-05:00that's such good news that you two were able to ta...that's such good news that you two were able to talk it out. it's corny and all that but it's totally true: talking through the problems - no matter how big or small - in a relationship makes such a difference, doesn't it? always makes me feel closer to ray afterwards as well :)<BR/><BR/>i'm excited to hear what your future job plans are! share! :)boohoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10356984519402775537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-51054095167919612602008-06-04T19:24:00.000-05:002008-06-04T19:24:00.000-05:00You're leaving Nashville already? You just got her...You're leaving Nashville already? You just got here!!! We should meet up at Sam's sushi before you go. <BR/><BR/>I hope you receive the clarity you need about Carter. Relationships are hard.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-79763366935834851762008-06-04T15:22:00.000-05:002008-06-04T15:22:00.000-05:00Wow, great insight from the counselor! We've had ...Wow, great insight from the counselor! We've had to talk through many an emtional reaction from things taht happened as children in our relationship. That's great that you both have an open line of communication and are identifying those things. You are on teh right track!<BR/><BR/>Are you going to move from Nashville then at the end of summer?Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15510702377296760913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-58228038351390857912008-06-04T12:50:00.000-05:002008-06-04T12:50:00.000-05:00Hey, I'm glad to hear that you've begun to work th...Hey, <BR/><BR/>I'm glad to hear that you've begun to work through things and I think that you are right, it is hard to unlearn the emotional reactions we had as children. Josh and I go through that too. So tell us more about what you've decided to do after your volunteering ends?<BR/><BR/>BettyBetty Brioneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04763134035657843977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-4306620974037550802008-06-04T10:30:00.000-05:002008-06-04T10:30:00.000-05:00I missed you terribly!So what is the status with C...I missed you terribly!<BR/><BR/>So what is the status with Carter?<BR/><BR/>And most importantly, when are you coming to visit?ellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14154259479174026938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-69895010089737807332008-06-04T08:18:00.000-05:002008-06-04T08:18:00.000-05:00Ally, where have you been lately?!?! I miss you te...Ally, where have you been lately?!?! I miss you terribly and am totally out of the loop on your current relationship status!<BR/><BR/>It sounds better, though:-). Very happy to hear that you feel like things are moving forward again...<BR/><BR/>And dying to hear about your next job!Accidentally Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01869100744451468800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17276748.post-60775854105448265482008-06-04T06:47:00.000-05:002008-06-04T06:47:00.000-05:00What, I don't get any special mention for convinci...What, I don't get any special mention for convincing you that you were over-reacting the whole time? ;)<BR/><BR/>Actually, no. I'm glad we had a long chat and a lot to catch up on. It was an insightful look into issues that we all have at times. I seemed to have suffered similar circumstances with Sarah last night. I'll be blogging about it shortly...Aaronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00584354669062073865noreply@blogger.com